Sunday, 26 October 2008

SO MUCH HAS BEEN GOING ON, IT IS VERY CRAZY!!!


Firstly, I am in colombia. I have been here for a month and I have 11 months to go. It is almost surreal but i really like being here(most of the time).

Secondly, I am in love(maybe this should be first?). You know the type of love that makes being continents apart of no consequence? As in me? In a LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? But we thank God sha that all my family issues and my stupid mistakes have not ruined me completely. I am still naive enough to want to believe that distance is not an issue and love conquers all..HA HA HA. I hope these words do not come back and haunt me. But sha sha.. I am in love. lol.

Thirdly, I need advice you guys. I have a friend and she claims to love some guy. But because I am a VIP(in my own eyes o) word has been reaching me that this guy is a player and a cheat and what not. She is one of my best friends, so I had to tell her. But she won't listen o. She is convinced he loves her and he wants to marry her. Now I don't know what to do. Should I just watch and fold my arms and watch her get hurt? She has been through so much and according to my mister, I can not help her. He is sure she is going to crash and burn and I am terrified. she is my best friend, I really want to know if there is something I can do to help. Suggestions are very welcome.

SO back to my Colombian adventures. I am here, doing an exchange programme for a year. Working for a great organisation and learning spanish. I love Colombia, especially the city I live in which is small but has a cool european vibe. It is really surreal to be here. I will talk about it more in my future posts. I want to share my experiences here with you guys. Colombia reminds me of Nigeria in a lot of ways though, their food is similar, they have mosquitoes, blah blah and so on(apparently something about both countries being tropical).

I know I have been MIA for a long time but I did not want to blog about insignificant things. The significant things were too depressing and I just did not want to be depressed.

and in case you lot were wondering, I finished uni with a 2.1 which is not exactly a first BUT WE THANK GOD FOR HIS BLESSINGS.. ha ha.

Anyways pple.. I am coming to stalk your blogs.

xoxo.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

good to see u back.

about ur friend, I think u have done all that u can in telling her. (I believe that is way better than not saying anything at all, and I have more respect for you for actually mentioning the situation to her)

U can try telling her again. But remember that that is the most u can do...

and u r in love? nice! I hope he is a good man and that u r over whatever has happened in the past...

take care and hope u r having a nice time in Colombia.

Jinta said...

where are you? miss u